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There
is a wealth of research, which shows that fathers as well as mothers
are vital for the healthy emotional development of children.
For
men of any age, having a child has a dramatic impact. It changes
the way they see themselves, the way they feel about life and the
world around them.
New
fatherhood is a chance - and a challenge - to learn about themselves.
It
can be invigorating and exciting; it can be scary, a daunting prospect,
and sometimes for any father lonely and isolating.
We
have already said that fathers are not always given the best preparation
for being a father, in a practical sense - What
to do at the birth? How do I change a nappy, kind of a sense?
Or,
more importantly, for fathers to be supported in making sense of
what is going on for them at that time in their lives - How
do I feel about being a father? How do I feel about my baby? My
life has turned upside down, and I just feel like running away.
This
is never truer than if you are a young father who is not living
with his baby or partner, perhaps seeing them at the weekend with
a new grandmother looking on!
`Investing
in Fathers` is here to find out exactly what it's like to
be a young father who is not living with their baby, and find out
the best way of supporting him in being a father to his child.
Whichever
way you look at it, whatever happens in the future, whether he sees
his child or not; he will always be a father, and we should support
him in that.
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